Sunday, May 16, 2010

How soon is too soon?

How soon is "too soon" to fall for someone? Hours? Days? Weeks? Months? Years?
Asked on my twitter page a day or two ago and got a few interesting answers. Pretty much the vast majority said anything less than 3 months is too soon. Though i did hear a couple convincing arguments about a couple weeks being more than sufficient.
Here is what I heard, ya'll take it for what you want comment, do whatever. Take a second and see what some others think of this argument.
ROC - "I almost feel like it has to be some months, because you realistically can't like somebody you don't know enough"
Christie - "hmm....well it can be days but definitely NOT months or years... :) for years it would be them growing on you..LOL"
KJB - "Mannn, if its less than like 2 months, I would say that's too soon to have "fallen" for someone. Gotta put in more work."
KJB - "You can have a crush at first sight, but not love. Too much time and work gotta be put in. #rns"
Cakin Jeff - "three months. That give u enough time to see the good and the bad"
Steph - "depends on how long u knew them before thinkin bout a relationship. Either way I think it shouldn't be shorter than weeks"
KJB - "yes. I'm actually considering a 4 month clause just to be safe/sure. But its a case by case basis.love in itself is unconditional. And mutual or not you can't possibly have known someone in less than 2 months.not enough to love them and vice versa. Its just not likely."
I won't give my opinion just would love for you to comment and give your "2 cents". Even if you don't comment just take a second to think and see where you fall in this argument.

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